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Read through to the end to see what conclusions I came to based on this back-and-forth. Locario: I think the right time to have sex with a guy you are dating is at least by the third date.You should not wait any longer, because the guy might start to lose interest in you or think that you are playing games and just using him for attention or for his money.So at the end of the day, it’s about knowing yourself and what works for you and weeding through the guys who will respect your boundaries. Locario: I see what you’re saying but what happens is most women don’t express what you’ve just stated, so at the end of the day it’s a communication thing.If a guy was dating a woman and she said those things and he really liked her he would keep seeing her, but if she didn’t say anything then he would assume that the woman is not really interested in him or playing games because he would be thinking, “If she really liked me we would be having sex by now” or he might be thinking, “What’s taking so long for us to have sex?Also, the guy you are dating is most likely dating other girls.If those other girls are having sex with him and you aren’t, he might start paying more attention to the other girls. So…third date: That’s, say, three weeks of knowing someone. What do you know about a man and his intentions after such a short amount of time?I’ve seen enough women in my lifetime be absolutely crushed by thinking that having sex with a man means sealing the relationship deal, when that’s not at all what he was thinking or looking for.
Most guys will think that you are not interested in them because you are not sleeping with them.
The end goal is to better understand men’s deeper, more latent needs; it is to mold yourself into what you think every man wants you to be.
I love conducting Q&A sessions on various topics with men as part of my “he-said/she-said” series; mostly because you get direct and honest access to how men think and feel. Locario, a no-nonsense dating and relationship coach who has been featured on Vh1, FUSE, The Dish Network, TLC, ABC Family, The Tyra Banks Show and Anderson Cooper.
I WILL delete any Scat or underage stuff I happen to find, though. Oh, I reserve the right to delete horrific grammar as well.
And, if you like this interactive, please let me know! Feel free to add other fetishy stuff if you like, but I will delete any blatant Scat or underage-ism I find, as well as not-up-to-par writing.
I’m sleeping with him, because I really want to for the sake of my own needs, and I’ll be okay with whatever happens,” then go for it.