Advice on dating a younger man
These are things that should discourage you to date a married man or encourage you to end the relationship: 1. You cant make it public There are so many things that can go wrong with a secret relationship.Hes not entirely yours Youll be at the mercy of his daily schedule, as he needs to prioritize his time for his wife and kids. When you start to get close to someone and fall in love, its natural that you want to go out in public and tell your family and friends.However, often women are lured back at their vulnerable moments.To prevent it, you should also try to slowly diminish your feeling on him.Many cheating men still love their wives and kids and can summarily end the relationship with you, if it threatens to disturb his marriage.Youll be depressed, left alone and theres nothing you can do about it. You should be ready for a huge fight There is always the risk that his crazed wife will call you incessantly or, worse bang on your door, when she finds out.For many men, faithfulness is a matter of options and they cheat because they can choose.It is certainly unwise to categorize every man in the same bracket and you shouldnt expect all men to cheat immediately given the opportunity.
A cheated woman may go ballistic and furiously presses her husband about name, address and phone number of the other woman.
What was your goal when you started the relationship with him?
It is likely that you wanted to have a lasting relationship with someone who is mature and sensitive. Think about things that youve neglected after you started the relationship.
Unfortunately, you cant do that, because you want to keep your relationship secret, due to the stigma of dating a married man and the dangers it entails. You need to physically share a man If you have a sexual relationship with a married man, you should be comfortable with the "double dipping".
A cheating man often has a reinvigorated intimacy with his wife, in an attempt to cover his tracks.
He may try to downplay his sexual relationship with the wife to you, but in the end, he goes home to her, sleeps with her and plays husband-and-wife with her, and "sadly" not with you. You waste precious time Youre not getting younger while youre having a relationship with a married man.